Friday, December 17, 2010

Thanksgiving

Well this is one of the best Thanksgivings ever. I really did feel thankful, mostly for my family. I am so thankful to have my husband and wonderful son, Grant. They make me feel appreciated and important. They help me understand the meaning of joy and love. And this year, it felt even more special to celebrate together with other members of our family, both on my side and James' side. And MOST importantly, the AGGIES BTHO TU!!!! ;)

Just kidding...MOST importantly, I am thankful for the gospel of Jesus Christ that helps me know the purpose of life and how to be truly happy.

We spent the night in Kingsville Wednesday night before Thanksgiving and hung out and Grant got to play with his cousins, which he loved! Thanksgiving day was really fun with LOTS of yummy food.

Aunt Jill read stories to all the cousins
Grant showed off how much he loves mouths (he will stare and get his eyes realllly close to your mouth to peer inside, it's hilarious!).

After dinner on Thursday, Grant and I headed up to San Antonio to see my family. James had to study and work on his project so he stayed in CC. It was awesome to get to see my parents, Karyn, Pat, and Melanie. Friday we decorated my parents tree and Grant loved looking at the lights.


He was a little bit cranky that evening but we didn't think much of it. The next day, though, Grant woke up at 5am throwing up. I got scared and I thought he had gotten a bug. My mom and I took turns holding him and trying to comfort him all morning. He would scream bloody murder if we ever put him down and his fever seemed to be getting worse. Finally, we took him to a nearby clinic and found out that he had a really bad ear infection. Poor baby. I felt bad because I had no clue that's what it was. By the next day, after starting antibiotics, he felt MUCH better. It's amazing what a difference it made!

Although I was sad that he felt bad, it felt so good to be able to comfort my baby and know that being held and cuddled by me helped him feel better. It was the best feeling in the world to be there for him. And THANKS to my mommy who knew exactly what to do and who helped so much! Happy (late) Thanksgiving!

November Highlights

November was a wonderful month! It started off with baby Grant getting his first tooth! We noticed that he had been whiney and waking up a lot in the night, and was inconsolable. I felt his gums and I felt a bump on the bottom gums and I knew what was happening. Now I know why people say teething is tough...even with remedies and medicine, it's still so uncomfortable for the baby and hard for them to sleep. Which makes for a tired mommy and daddy.

We did our interview for the Whataburger's Biggest Fan award. We went to 'Whataburger on the Bay' and took lots of pictures outside. It was fun, but a lot of work to hold the poses and smiles for so long. I had to stand awkwardly on a skinny stool since James is so tall. Grant didn't want to smile or look at the camera. It must have been funny for people watching us outside the building. We were trying to hold Grant in between us and have him look at the camera. Several people were dancing behind the photographer and shaking Grant's toys in an effort to catch his attention and make him look happy. That made ME laugh which made it easier to smile, at least.

Whataburger's #2 Fan
It all started working together at Whataburger in College Station, TX
Now we have a little Whatababy
Still making me laugh!

My boys!

I love this little guy!
Grant wearing the photographer's hat

Grant turned 10 months old in November. I seriously can't believe it. He is growing up sooo fast. He cruises along furniture and crawls REALLY fast now! He started making clicking noises and he loves to do them loudly and will click back and forth with you. He also likes to blow spit bubbles and thinks spitting out his baby food is really funny. Now I know what those people on TV and on the commercials feel like who are sitting there with both baby and mom/dad covered in baby food! haha. We have started feeding him some finger foods. He mostly likes to play with them in his hand instead of actually eat them. He thinks it's fascinating to mush things in his hand and stare at it. Here he is examining rice at La Playa.


Another thing that Grant loves is playing with laundry and throwing things on the floor--even better if he can do both at the same time. He gets so excited to pick up every piece of laundry and throw it on the floor. When I come back from doing something real quick, everything is on the floor! LOL. I can't even get frustrated because of the incredibly cute grins and giggles he has during this little adventure. One of his favorite 'toys' is a leftover strip of fabric from when I made a blanket. He takes it out, waves it around, chews on it, and drags it around with him. What a great toy for about 10 cents!

Playing with fabric


Playing with laundry

When we are out or he is in a high chair, he will throw everything on the floor and except you to pick it up. He'll do it over and over again and doesn't get tired of that game!

And in general he likes to simply get into EVERYTHING! He has started the era of baby exploration. He tries to open cabinets (they are childproofed now), plays with doors, is obsessed with the remote, computer, and cell phones, and he stuck his hand in the toilet for the first time.

It is a big adjustment when babies start getting into everything. Sometimes it is frustrating, but it is also funny. It seems like just when you are getting used to one phase, another one starts and you basically start all over with your parenting skills. Things are constantly changing.

We are very happy, though, and can't imagine our life without him. It was fun to be married with just the two of us for a while, but our life is so much more full of joy now. We literally can just sit there and watch him and feel happy to do that all night. This is a really fun stage of babyhood and parenthood. The beginning was REALLY hard for me, but I am thoroughly enjoying this stage. Grant is so happy and playful, and just loves us. His innocence and sweetness is such an example to us and helps us to remember what is really important.

Freedom

I don't usually put political posts on the blog, but this is important to me. I am proud to be an American and to live in a land of freedom where we can live and worship how we please. But with freedom comes responsibility. It is up to us to make sure that our representatives are truly representing us and the best interests of our country. If we don't speak out for what is right then we are letting other people decide for us.

Over the past few years of living here in Corpus Christi, I have written our representatives multiple times on various issues. Each time, I got responses back that indicated that the representative didn't care what I thought but he was going to do/vote what HE thought was best. I started writing (as it got closer to election time) that if he did not listen to what the PEOPLE wanted, that he would be voted out and pleaded with him to listen.

I voted on election day this year and I carefully considered who I would vote for. Of course I voted for the other candidate in our representative's election. I never thought it would mean much since he has been so highly favored in this district and been a rep for 20+ years. James and I watched the election results and much to our surprise we saw that the candidate we voted for was winning! Surely, we thought, in the end he will still lose. He was in the underdog party for this area. The next day we saw that he won and the incumbent LOST by 800 votes! It was extremely close.

On that day, I knew my vote mattered. I knew my voice mattered. I knew that our government worked as it should on that day because the people spoke and made a difference. Now, I only hope that this new representative WILL work to make a difference by continuing to listen to the people. I am proud to be an American. I am so incredibly grateful for what we have here. It is truly special and I hope that I can teach that to my children.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

October firsts

October was another great month full of many 'firsts.' Touching moments with friends and family will make October stand out in our memories.

We celebrated Andy & Susan's (my brother/sister in laws) first baby by attending a baby shower in Houston in the beginning of the month. I have never been to a more teary-eyed, sentimental baby shower! There were many thoughtful and special gifts that touched all of our hearts. We are so excited for baby Eli to come.Here are the blankets that I made for him. It was my first attempt at doing something like this, so thank goodness this sweet little baby won't care about all the mistakes I made!

Halfway through the month our department moved into a different building across campus and I now have my very own office for the first time. I really enjoy it!

I also bought my first pair of non-maternity jeans since giving birth. I had some skirts and capris, but not jeans. I kept thinking that I was going to fit into my old ones...but that's not happening anytime soon and I'm slowly accepting that. Life is just too busy right now to worry about it and I food too much! It is embarrassing to admit this, but I am posting it for all the world to see in case there are any women out there who need to feel better about themselves. Go ahead and use me for that! But I do feel better wearing normal jeans.

I went on my first work trip to a conference in Denver, CO...and this also meant it was the first time to be away from baby Grant for more than a day. It was a great trip. I got to see a lot of cool things and learn a lot of great stuff for my job that I have already started implementing. It feels good to make goals and accomplish them. But I missed my Grant and James dearly. I loved the moments when we talked on the phone and I got to hear Grants sweet voice in the background, just jabbering away.

I took myself sightseeing on the first day that I was there. It was kind of weird and a little scary walking around a big city all my myself, but it was also really neat. I visited the state capitol, the 16th street mall. It is a really cool series of shops along many city blocks...kind of like an outdoor mall. There is a free bus that takes you back and forth between the shops. I saw a guy playing bagpipes, lol.

One of the best parts was seeing so much beautiful scenery!


Later it started snowing on the mountaintops. I didn't even bring a real jacket!


We headed out to Estes Park to visit the Stanley Hotel (the inspiration for The Shining), which was really neat! The mountains were beautiful and so was the old hotel.


Our friends also brought home their first adopted son. He is a beautiful baby and shortly after they came home, we threw a baby shower for them. It was a wonderful time and everyone loved getting to celebrate his homecoming and showering him with love!




Welcome!!!



Everyone admired this sweet little boy.


Look at those dimples!!!


They did a vintage sports theme for their nursery, so I attempted to make a fun cake for the shower. It was the first time I ever attempted anything like this, so I was pretty pleased with how everything turned out. They sure make it look a lot easier on TV! haha.

And to finish out the month, Grant had his FIRST HALLOWEEN! We couldn't decide on a costume, so we went to Babies R Us and held up different ones to Grant to see what he would like. 3 times in a row, he went for the soft brown bear costume. So that's what he was! He couldn't have looked more adorable!





He didn't mind the costume but he still wasn't quite sure what to think about everything. I think seeing a lot of OTHER people in costumes seemed more scary to him than having to wear one himself. He liked to feel the soft fur on his costume.



Our little bear!!!

He had enough at this point. Oh well, it was fun while it lasted! Can't wait till next year!

Monday, November 15, 2010

We won second place!


Enjoying a baseball game at Whataburger Field


Taking pictures at a Whataburger in San Antonio on our wedding day (and yes, we did get a bite to eat there-but through the drive through!)

After the Whataburger's Biggest Fan contest ended on September 30th, we received a call that we had won second place! I had been hoping and anticipating for the call all day at work. It was difficult to focus because I was just so on edge to know what the results were! Some people might think it's a little silly to get so excited about such a contest, but I guess the fact that I AM so excited just shows how much we really are the biggest fans!

Unfortunately we did not get first place. An older couple from Rockport, TX took first place after stating that they had eaten over 5,000 Whataburgers over the course of their lives together! They also had a very cute story, but I wish we had gotten first place, of course.

You can watch the video here:

So what happened next was getting set up to have an interview and our pictures taken. We just did that this past weekend and had a blast. We talked about how James and I met at Whataburger, some of the fun memories and experiences that we had working there getting to know customers, etc. We also talked about how we are always telling everyone we meet about Whataburger, how great it is, what is best on the menu, and convincing them to eat there! All our friends and coworkers know that about us and were so excited about the contest. Thanks to everyone that supported us!

We then had a photoshoot in front of "Whataburger on the Bay" which is right off of Ocean Drive near downtown Corpus Christi. It is a two story Whataburger. We picked that one because it is really neat looking, a great location, and I have always thought it was SO fun to have a two story Whataburger. I remember when James took me there for the first time several years ago. We were visiting Kingsville together, down from College Station, and I met his parents for the first time. We took a day trip into Corpus to go see the Lexington and we took each other's pictures on the balcony at Whataburger. I remember thinking it was the COOLEST thing ever!

This is a part of a scrapbook page that I made with us from that day. The middle one is just a random day when we were working.



And these pics were taken at the same Whataburger a few years later shortly after we got engaged.




The photoshoot was a unique experience. It was very low key but I never realized how difficult it could be to continuously hold a smile, keep my hair from blowing in my face, balancing on heels on a step stool, hold my head in a certain place all while holding a baby, trying to get him to look at the camera, making noises and snapping our fingers to get his attention all the while trying to hold a pose to be ready for 'the moment' when the conditions were right for the picture, lol!

The pictures will be used in a book about Whataburger's history and the video interview and pictures will be presented at the convention in April (which is when we will get our free coupons as well--we still don't have 'em yet, ya'll, but that's ok). I am hoping we will get some copies of the pictures before then. I saw a preview of the pictures and they look really neat! I enjoyed feeling 'special' for the day but it's certainly not something I would want to do every day, haha.

And I want to publicly say THANK YOU to James for putting up with me and my nervousness and also with the long day of pictures. He, as a typical guy, doesn't seem to get quite as much enjoyment out of taking tons of pictures, haha! So thanks honey for being such a great sport! We wouldn't have met if it weren't for Whataburger, so it is so great to have so many details about our family and relationship documented so well. :)

From then...


A compilation of some of our favorite work shirts!


...Till now!!!










And now we are officially the SECOND BIGGEST FANS!

September

We have had a really busy Fall season. September kicked things off with a birthday, an Aggie game, contests, beach trips, and a crawling baby.

We went to San Antonio to celebrate my sister's birthday. We went to El Jarro for dinner and had cake afterwards. It was really nice to have the whole family together. Happy Birthday, Karyn!!!



Later that weekend we headed up to College Station and had all the Gardiner side go to an Aggie football game.



Aggie football games are incredibly fun and A&M has the reputation for being the loudest stadium in college football. Although we were very high up, we had an awesome time participating in the yells, etc. Being there made me really miss and appreciate all of the wonderful times that I had while going to college there. There is something special about Texas A&M and the Aggie spirit,







We also got to see niece Alexandra get blessed at Church. We were glad to be there to witness and support her. Again, it was really great to have the whole family together and just enjoy spending time together.




Grant has been growing leaps and bounds and started doing a REAL, OFFICIAL crawl in late September. It is such a joy to watch him learn and grow. He is a very determined little boy. Once he realizes that he wants something or tries to accomplish something, he will keep trying and trying and trying until he gets it. It made me think of how focused, diligent, and patient babies really are. They put so much effort into learning the simplest things. As I watch him, I think to myself that I probably would have given up after just a few tries! But he just keeps on trucking along. This is one of the lessons we can learn from our little ones.





GRANT TURNED 8 MONTHS OLD! He is becoming such a big boy! Lately, he LOVES sticking his tongue out, blowing spit bubbles, still says 'dadadadada' a lot, has braved crawling on tile and has discovered the kitchen, can pull himself up to standing while holding on to something, and tries to climb up stuff and go everywhere!



We celebrated by going with some WONDERFUL friends at the BEACH! I love living so close & getting to go anytime we want. We had a blast-rode some good waves on the boogie boards and Grant was splishy splashing when the waves would run over his legs on the sand. Of course he tried to eat the sand again, lol! I loved the look of pure delight on his face!





The drawback to our great month is the fact that we got TWO flat tires in one week, both of which could not be repaired and had to be replaced. It was a crazy time but thankfully everything has been taken care of now. It seemed like a big deal at the time, but after reviewing everything else that happened that month, it doesn't seem like such a big deal after all. :)